Thanks for commenting, Bobby. And I pray you are right about most Christians “in their hearts…not being judgemental.” Though the heart is so deceptive and can quickly fall into proud judgement. Which is why Jesus so adamantly confronted the Pharisees (as you know).

And I so hope we as the church would see the mothers and fathers struggling, rather than just point and debate. Also thank you for your encouragement to find practical ways to love those who are hurting. That’s my prayer (and my question above that I posed to my readers). And personally He has led me to “do” some things — like walking beside a young woman who was seriously debating her choice. Thankfully because of God’s movement through our friendship she didn’t abort that precious baby. Instead she saw the kindness and love of her Maker. Praying He allows more opportunities in my life like that one.

Only by His grace, Lara

If we are able to strip away all of the political and social arguments – we might just see a mother (and often a father) who is hurting.

Lara, I would encourage you to look past the “noise” and find a way to help those who are hurting. Once you do, you can inspire others to do the same.

In Christ,
Bobby Singleton

Wow. Thank you so much for being willing to put your story out there. How needed! And your daughter! Oh. my. How precious that is. I can only imagine how you must overflow with love and thanksgiving. God is so amazing to use our scars as places of ministry. Praying He opens door after door as you share your story. Be blessed, sister-friend.

I AM a woman who had a baby at 19, am a pastor’s daughter, all that good stuff… my mom and family made it possible for me to parent my daughter. Now, 14yrs later, I’m happily married, a mama of 3, watching MY teen advocate for LIFE. She did a pro-life presentation this year in her way-liberal public school with the support of community agencies. She interviewed women we know who’ve made adoption plans and one who I had no idea had had abortions as a teen, but who heard of Lia’s project and asked if she could share her story. It was incredible. Also I learned of a close family member, years ago, who had an abortion as well as a really Jesus-adoring friend who had one as well. These tender, beautiful women being vulnerable to share with me causes me to be really asking God for grace and sensitivity to share His heart for life in tune with His heart for these mamas. I blogged about my daughter’s project http://bit.ly/12JbNUo after she presented it, if anyone is interested. I’m so happy you’re raising this topic for discussion!

Yes, Shannon. I’d love to hear specifics as to how He’s led you to support life in a way that offers love and compassion. I know we have a local organization that does just that. And it’s a blessing to hear the testimonies of women who’ve made a difficult choice, considering their circumstances, to not abort. Thanks for commenting.

I’m not talking politically. I avoid political discussions as much as possible, Janet. Ha. Call it a cop out. But I’m talking about God’s love and design of life. Just as you said, every situation is complex and unique. But like you, I believe our God is one who can work miraculous things even in the most devastating of situations *to those who seek Him.*

Oh girl. Amen and amen! I totally agree. Forgive us, Lord, for preaching condemnation.

I love that it says in the Word that Jesus was full of grace and truth. Grace AND truth. Both. May that be true of us. xoxo

There is so much pain as a repercussion to the choice. Praying we as Jesus-followers are hands of love and healing.

Thank you thank you for saying that Bethany. I think the key word you said is “willing.” That we would open up our hands and our plans to God and say “whatever You have for us I want.” Again, thank you.