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December 5, 2011 By Lara

Love isn’t always fluffy

I’m a natural born conflict avoider. In my ideal world, everyone gets along while singing kumbaya. But love isn’t always fluffy. It isn’t always a bouquet of daisies. It sometimes has to make tough choices and get a little messy.


flickr photo credit: alejandra mavroski

They don’t tell you that in the Cinderella movie.

Open rebuke is better than love carefully concealed. Faithful are the wounds of a friend, but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful. Proverbs 27:5-6

 

Today I’m spending some time at the Do Not Depart blog talking about one way I maintain a spirit of gentleness when love breaks out of my happy box — like when I have to address the sin of someone I love. Click here to read more.

Fill me, Lord…

Have you seen love get messy?
How have you handled it when love isn’t fluffy?

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  1. JaQuinn Johnson says

    December 5, 2011 at 9:03 am

    I’m uncertain if crying is considered “handling,” but that’s usually at least one of my responses when it gets difficult. When love is tough, not easy. When it requires choice, not just how I feel. When how I feel does not match up to what I know is true. I pray, if I can find the words. Usually I have one verse and I cling to it until the life in the words become true to me. This happens especially when someone comes to me with something that they believe is not right in my life. It’s how I distinguish their opinion from the truth.

    • Lara Gibson Williams says

      December 5, 2011 at 12:56 pm

      Wise words, friend. “When it requires choice, not just how I feel.” xoxo

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  1. Abiding Fruit :: Gentleness :: One Thing I Try To Remember « Do Not Depart says:
    December 5, 2011 at 6:34 am

    […] Love sometimes gets a little messy. God sometimes calls us to confront the sin in another. But we’re to do it in a spirit of gentleness. To maintain a gentle spirit, especially when my emotions flare, I have to remember who I am in light of God. I have to remember that I too am in process. […]

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