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March 22, 2013 By Lara

“To Walk or Stay” {A word from my husband and final GIVEAWAY!}

There you have it. Our marriage hasn’t been picture-perfect. But nothing in this world ever is. Except Jesus.

 

No picture perfect.


(No children were harmed in the taking of this picture.)

 

In light of the whole book release thing, I asked my husband if he had anything he would like to say here on my blog. So I wanted to share a few of his words.

 

 
From Adam:

“I like to stay behind the scenes but…

Lara’s book was an opportunity for us to be truthful and real. It’s critical for us as a body of believers to share our struggles. Otherwise we are on an island alone, and that’s where Satan loves for us to be. We wallow in our guilt. We forget about forgiveness and grace. We have no one encouraging us or holding us accountable.

But it’s vital that we drop our pride, seek fellowship with other believers, and be honest about our lives. That’s when we will see the walls come down.

If you’re struggling with an area of your life, rest assured that others are battling the exact same thing (or some variation of it). It’s alright to not be ‘fine.’ It’s normal to struggle.

I would encourage you not to stuff it, but allow God to use it as a testimony to His grace, forgiveness, and healing. Others need to know when we’ve been through the battle and come out victorious. The sorrow that we experience today may be the very thing that God uses for His glory tomorrow.”
 

 

“The sorrow that we experience today may be the very thing that God uses for His glory tomorrow.” I love that!

I said it the other day on the blog and again in that interview with Shaun Tabatt but it bears repeating. I could have never finished this project honorably had Adam not been supportive. He’s a very brave man.

Today — this last official launch day — I want to promote the book club coming up in April. It’s like a virtual small group. Or large group, depending on how you look at it.

 

To Walk or Stay Book Club

 

We’re going to take ten weeks to go through the book together — one chapter each week. And each Thursday we will come together in the blog world and discuss the questions at the end of each chapter…because God didn’t make us to be islands (as Adam said above). We need each other.

Click here to RSVP

 

Final Giveaway :: 5-Book Bundle!

To promote this idea of authentic community, I’m giving away a book-bundle today.

One sweet woman (or man) will win 5 copies of To Walk or Stay with the hope that you will use this bundle of books to start a small group book study of your own. (Rather than sell them on eBay.)

All you have to do to enter is share this post anywhere and everywhere social media. Leave a comment for each time you share the post. {Up to 3 entries}

Get two more entries if you go ahead and buy a copy of the book for yourself. Leave two comments if you buy the book. {2 entries}
 

Buy the Book

 
Also, the other two giveaways are still open! ($75 in giftcards and DaySpring gift set) If you haven’t entered, you may want to do that today-ish. Winners of all three giveaways will be announced on Monday!

 

Thank you!

I have to also say, I’ve been so blessed and humbled by your support this week. I don’t have the power to take the words in this book and make them minister to souls. But God does. So I pray He would graciously anoint, taking each sweet reader into a time of communing with Him through the pages — for His glory and our good.
 

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  1. Katrina Lee says

    March 22, 2013 at 6:42 am

    Shared on Facebook!

  2. Katrina Lee says

    March 22, 2013 at 6:43 am

    Shared on Twitter!

  3. Katrina Lee says

    March 22, 2013 at 6:43 am

    Shared on Pinterest 🙂

  4. Crystal Garvin says

    March 22, 2013 at 7:02 am

    Shared on Facebook! (And I would totally start a small group with the bundle – not sell them on EBay!) 🙂

  5. Kristin Anne Smith says

    March 22, 2013 at 7:07 am

    I tweeted – https://twitter.com/richesofhislove/status/315057053972451328

  6. Kristin Anne Smith says

    March 22, 2013 at 7:07 am

    Shared on FB

  7. Alyce B says

    March 22, 2013 at 7:12 am

    Awesome. Can’t wait to read it! I shared on Twitter.

  8. Alyce B says

    March 22, 2013 at 7:13 am

    I also shared on Pinterest.

  9. Crystal Garvin says

    March 22, 2013 at 7:20 am

    I just bought your book 🙂

  10. Jen says

    March 22, 2013 at 7:21 am

    Pinned it 🙂

  11. Jen says

    March 22, 2013 at 7:22 am

    Facebooked

  12. Jessica Shepard says

    March 22, 2013 at 7:34 am

    Shared on FB

  13. Jessica Shepard says

    March 22, 2013 at 7:34 am

    And Pinterest

  14. ohAmanda says

    March 22, 2013 at 7:59 am

    Thank you, Adam for sharing your heart and allowing Lara to share your family’s story. Your story is a treasure to all of us!

    Thank you, Lara! Can’t wait for the book club!

  15. Jenna says

    March 22, 2013 at 8:22 am

    Facebook shared!

  16. Jenna says

    March 22, 2013 at 8:22 am

    Pinned it!

  17. Janelle Allen says

    March 22, 2013 at 8:38 am

    I shared on Facebook!

  18. Janelle Allen says

    March 22, 2013 at 8:38 am

    Shared on twitter!

  19. Janelle Allen says

    March 22, 2013 at 8:38 am

    Shared on Pinterest!

  20. James-Julia Spears says

    March 22, 2013 at 8:41 am

    Shared on FB

  21. James-Julia Spears says

    March 22, 2013 at 8:42 am

    Shared on Pinterest!

  22. James-Julia Spears says

    March 22, 2013 at 8:42 am

    Tweeted!

  23. Jolene says

    March 22, 2013 at 9:17 am

    I am so down with doing this book as a study…hmmm…I am going to seek God and what it looks like but I am jazzed about such a dynaic!

  24. Jolene says

    March 22, 2013 at 9:20 am

    Fb and pined!

  25. Mandy Melton says

    March 22, 2013 at 9:26 am

    Shared on Pinterest ~

  26. Mandy Melton says

    March 22, 2013 at 9:27 am

    Tweeted @ServeandSave

  27. Jada Smith says

    March 22, 2013 at 9:39 am

    Shared on Facebook

  28. Jada Smith says

    March 22, 2013 at 9:40 am

    Tweeted and pinned

  29. Jada Smith says

    March 22, 2013 at 9:40 am

    Bought e-book

  30. Ashley Parrish says

    March 22, 2013 at 9:45 am

    Shared on FB and pinned on Pinterest

  31. Nadia Comaneci Gadson-Moses says

    March 22, 2013 at 10:30 am

    I’ve shared on Facebook.

  32. Nadia Comaneci Gadson-Moses says

    March 22, 2013 at 10:31 am

    I’ve shared on Tweeter.

  33. Nadia Comaneci Gadson-Moses says

    March 22, 2013 at 10:31 am

    I’ve shared on Pinterest.

  34. Genevieve says

    March 22, 2013 at 11:15 am

    I pinned it!

  35. Kat Parsons says

    March 22, 2013 at 12:28 pm

    Pinned it, Facebooked it, Emailing it now. Bought it….half way through already. I LOVE it!

  36. TJ says

    March 22, 2013 at 12:54 pm

    I don’t do social media, and i can’t really afford to buy the book before this give away is over. But I REALLY REALLY need to read this book. If I win this bundle, you can bet that i will pass it on. Thanks.

  37. Elisabeth C says

    March 22, 2013 at 12:59 pm

    I shared on facebook

  38. Elisabeth C says

    March 22, 2013 at 12:59 pm

    I shared on twitter

  39. joanna says

    March 22, 2013 at 2:23 pm

    shared on twitter

  40. joanna says

    March 22, 2013 at 2:24 pm

    pinned it…

  41. Emily says

    March 22, 2013 at 2:32 pm

    Love this. So excited for both of you guys. Your lives are an amazing testimony of God’s grace. I have bought a copy (or 2) of the book, but it’d probably be weird to enter me in the giveaway…it’s almost like we’re related;) Continuing to pray this reaches many many softened hearts who need this message. Love you!

  42. mongupp says

    March 22, 2013 at 2:40 pm

    tweeted…i would love to join in with the book club!

  43. Jennifer says

    March 22, 2013 at 2:43 pm

    Tweeted! https://twitter.com/jkimma/status/315171314056953856
    Sounds like this book would be a great resource and encouragement as I’m walking friends through some challenging times.

  44. Melissa Fields Wallace says

    March 22, 2013 at 2:45 pm

    Shared on Facebook

  45. Melissa Fields Wallace says

    March 22, 2013 at 2:45 pm

    Shared on Twitter

  46. Melissa Fields Wallace says

    March 22, 2013 at 2:45 pm

    Shared on Pinterest

  47. Jennifer Camp says

    March 22, 2013 at 3:30 pm

    This is just super exciting, Lara. I purchased two copies!

  48. Jennifer Camp says

    March 22, 2013 at 3:30 pm

    I tweeted.

  49. Jennifer Camp says

    March 22, 2013 at 3:30 pm

    And shared on Facebook. 🙂

  50. Jennifer Camp says

    March 22, 2013 at 3:30 pm

    Oh, shared on Pinterest, too.

  51. Stephanie Hanes says

    March 22, 2013 at 3:57 pm

    Shared on FB (on my personal AND blog page!).

  52. Stephanie Hanes says

    March 22, 2013 at 3:58 pm

    Shared on Pinterest!

  53. Stephanie Hanes says

    March 22, 2013 at 3:58 pm

    Shared on twitter (@Mom2VandA)

  54. Caroline @UnderGod'sMightyHand says

    March 22, 2013 at 4:39 pm

    Thanks for this giveaway, Lara! Shared on Twitter: https://twitter.com/Keep_Tha_Faith/statuses/315201050766364672

  55. Caroline @UnderGod'sMightyHand says

    March 22, 2013 at 4:41 pm

    And on my blog FB page! http://www.facebook.com/permalink.php?story_fbid=353420548091814&id=162902623819606

  56. Amy Smith says

    March 22, 2013 at 6:04 pm

    Shared on Twitter @ AmysSeasons

  57. Amy Smith says

    March 22, 2013 at 6:04 pm

    Shared on Facebook

  58. Amy Smith says

    March 22, 2013 at 6:04 pm

    Pinned on Pinterest!

  59. Amy Smith says

    March 22, 2013 at 6:07 pm

    Shared on my fb blog page also! Thanks for the giveaway!

  60. lynn ellis says

    March 22, 2013 at 8:02 pm

    shared

  61. Kaldonya says

    March 22, 2013 at 9:11 pm

    I’ve posted on FB

  62. Kaldonya says

    March 22, 2013 at 9:12 pm

    I’ve tweeted it too. Under Mrs. B. @Kaldonya

  63. Kaldonya says

    March 22, 2013 at 9:13 pm

    I’ve also pinned it. Thanks for this! It’s exactly where I’m at…

  64. Sara H says

    March 22, 2013 at 9:30 pm

    on twitter

  65. Sara H says

    March 22, 2013 at 9:30 pm

    on facebook

  66. Sara H says

    March 22, 2013 at 9:31 pm

    On pinterest

  67. Maureen says

    March 22, 2013 at 9:35 pm

    I tweeted about this giveaway:

    https://twitter.com/MoReenie24/status/315275299338199040

    Maureen
    maureen.tenney@gmail.com

  68. Maureen says

    March 22, 2013 at 9:36 pm

    I pinned this giveaway:

    http://pinterest.com/pin/143481938100883352/

    Maureen
    maureen.tenney@gmail.com
    Pinterest Name: MoReenie24

  69. Holly says

    March 22, 2013 at 9:56 pm

    I pinned!

  70. Holly says

    March 22, 2013 at 9:56 pm

    I tweeted!!

  71. Holly says

    March 22, 2013 at 9:56 pm

    Also shared 🙂

  72. Julie Reynolds says

    March 22, 2013 at 10:49 pm

    I bought the book for my daughter on kindle.

  73. Julie Reynolds says

    March 22, 2013 at 10:49 pm

    I shared on Facebook

  74. Julie Reynolds says

    March 22, 2013 at 10:49 pm

    I tweeted about the book

  75. Julie Reynolds says

    March 22, 2013 at 10:50 pm

    I bought the book for my daughter

  76. Julie Reynolds says

    March 22, 2013 at 10:50 pm

    I pinned on pinterest

  77. Michelle Shannon Bennett says

    March 22, 2013 at 11:59 pm

    I pinned it 🙂

  78. Michelle Shannon Bennett says

    March 23, 2013 at 12:00 am

    Shared on Facebook

  79. Lynette says

    March 23, 2013 at 12:45 am

    Shared on Facebook. Awesome.

  80. Lynette says

    March 23, 2013 at 12:45 am

    Pinned it too!

  81. Lynette says

    March 23, 2013 at 12:45 am

    And, finally, tweeted it! Again, awesome.

  82. Jenny Morrill Martin says

    March 24, 2013 at 3:07 pm

    I posted on FB

    jennymorrillmartin

  83. Jenny Morrill Martin says

    March 24, 2013 at 3:07 pm

    tweeted

    https://twitter.com/jennymartin116/status/315902236762992641

  84. Jenny Morrill Martin says

    March 24, 2013 at 3:07 pm

    pinned
    jennymartin116

  85. Lynn says

    March 24, 2013 at 8:05 pm

    I liked on Facebook and pinned it. I can’t wait to read it as I’m struggling with this.

  86. Joyce (and Norm) says

    March 24, 2013 at 8:26 pm

    Tweeted

    Thank you so much Lara and Adam for sharing your story. Many have already been touched by it, and God will use it to heal and strengthen relationships.

  87. laurenwlutz says

    March 24, 2013 at 9:53 pm

    I bought the book. I’m halfway through it, and I’m pretty confident that a small group study is going to happen this summer, whether I win the bundle or not!

  88. laurenwlutz says

    March 24, 2013 at 9:54 pm

    I bought the book. I’m proud of myself for starting at the Introduction. I tend to start in the middle of a book and read forwards and backwards in random patterns. Surprisingly, I haven’t been diagnosed with a mental disorder… yet.

  89. laurenwlutz says

    March 24, 2013 at 9:56 pm

    Pinned!

  90. Amanda Sali says

    March 24, 2013 at 10:32 pm

    Tweeted!

  91. Angie webb says

    March 29, 2013 at 7:46 pm

    Tweeted

  92. Bethany Luchene says

    June 6, 2013 at 9:34 pm

    Just bought your book at the referral of a friend! Can’t wait to get started reading it!

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