Whenever I sit down to write a post after a blogging break, it feels like I’m climbing back into a favorite chair. You know, the place you go to with a hot cup of tea and a good book. Yep. I’m there. Exhaling with keys clicking.
But yesterday afternoon I prayed, wondering what in the world I would write about. Because there’s this pressure that whatever I say has to be really good since I’ve had time away to think. Well, not think because our “vacation” included six kids under age eight which isn’t too conducive to quiet reflection. Hence yesterday’s prayer. Then life happened.
My seven-year-old came into the kitchen and asked if kids ever wrote blogs. “Yes. Kids can write blogs. Why? Do you want to start a blog?” She opened her eyes wide, “Could I?!” I told her “yes” and must admit my slight excitement at the thought of my sweet girl wanting to do what mommy does. But while I measured rice and prepared the chicken she decided that she wanted to do it right then. Like…plan and design an entire blog at that very moment.
Her and I have this conversation often. Not about blogging, but about timing.
A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.
Proverbs 25:11For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven…a time to tear, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak.
Portion of Ecclesiastes 3:1-8
Truth is, there’s a time to blog and a time to not. There’s a time to check emails and a time to let them wait. There’s a time to have that big conversation and a time to patiently keep our mouth closed. There’s a time to clean, organize, and launder and a time to sit on the floor and play Hi Ho Cheery-o. The beauty is in knowing what time it is. The beauty is learning to walk in His moment-by-moment plan.
The only way to know His plan for our moment is to know Him. And we get to know Him by spending time with Him. We grow in our intimacy with Him by listening to what He says in His Word and talking to Him about…everything. Everything. We ask what He would have us do rather than hope He blesses what we’ve already chosen.
He has plans for our today. He knows what will bring the greatest blessing, even in our moments.
I told my sweet girl to start praying, and that I would too. And Lord willing, we may venture into her blog plans this afternoon.
Fill me, Lord…
In the day-to-day, how do you keep in line with God’s plans?
Or do you find yourself running ahead of Him at times?
For those memorizing the Sermon on the Mount (How are you?!), here are this week’s verses:
{Week 22}
For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
Matthew 6:14-15
Lauren L. says
I’m bringing my 6yo to read this post right now. This will bless us both, and she’ll know we’re not the only ones who struggle with this.
Lara Gibson Williams says
You are definitely not alone. (Does she want to start a blog too?!)
Lauren L. says
She probably will now! 🙂 We struggle with the timing thing. We’re madly passionate about whatever’s on our mind at that moment and don’t mind sacrificing everything else for it so we can do it right now.
She totally understood that we have to listen to God for direction, and I told her we could help remind each other about this. Our next lesson may be on gentleness.
Emily says
So awesome how when you were contemplating what to write God gave you this incredibly wise thing to say! He is so good, and always intentional.
Lara Gibson Williams says
He is. 🙂
Kat @ Inspired To Action says
Great wisdom, Lara….
Marianne @ Abundant Life says
I love this Lara. Being able to discern when it is time to play or work or blog is so key to walking in the Spirit. When we do, there is this freedom to live more fully knowing that you are right where God wants you to be. Thanks for the great insight!
Lara Gibson Williams says
Yes! Freedom. Blessings, Marianne.
Francie Winslow says
Love that you are entering into such a season with your daughter where you can help her begin to put actions to her dreams…in the right time. Exciting to be a parent…and humbling…to be the floor that our kids can stand on as they reach past us and into their generation. Thanks for sharing your wisdom on timing…a good word for all ages.
Lara Gibson Williams says
I love that image of being “the floor that our kids can stand on.” Thank you!
Katie Terpstra says
I am hosting an intentional living themed link party right now and your post would be perfect for it! If you’d like to share, you can link up here: http://theterpblog.blogspot.com/2012/06/living-width-volume-ii.html
Lara Gibson Williams says
Thanks for the invite, Katie. You have a beautiful family!
Stephanie Hanes says
I love this! God’s been really doing a work on my heart lately about the purpose and direction of my writing…and the purpose and direction of our home. This blog post was perfectly timed for me. Thank you!